“For every action, there is an equal and opposite social media overreaction.” — Sir Isaac Newton (sort of)
For those of us who frequent social media sites, it’s not uncommon to see very passionate statements posted on a variety of important issues. The internet’s virtual soapbox has provided us with a platform to inform, discuss and debate wide-ranging topics that are near and dear to us all.
Unfortunately, it has also provided an impersonal barrier to hide behind and we often wind up saying things that we might not say in person. In many cases, we make the mistake of instinctually reacting rather than thoughtfully responding. (Never write a letter when you are angry, especially to someone you love!)
Recently, I’ve become disheartened to see so many people heading down an irreversible vitriolic path. And the ensuing trolling, sadly, is at an all-time high. I am not suggesting that people refrain from speaking their mind. I am suggesting that there are often better ways of phrasing and framing those opinions.
I have been vocal about the issue of harassment and cyberbullying, which I find to be abhorrent and unacceptable. People have opinions and often, they think theirs are the only ones that matter. Diverse opinions are welcome. But at the very least, can we express them with a modicum of civility?
So I am making a plea. Don’t lose your passion for what you believe in. Fight against those who foist injustice on our industry. Call out harassment and bullying whenever you experience it or witness it. Be specific with your fervor and not let your emotions overtake your mission.
There is still so much that needs to be done to change not only what we do, but also how we are perceived. Let us be civil and talk TO each other and not AT each other. There will always be more to be gained from conversation than confrontation.